3 Qualities To Search For In Your Partner If You Want A Love That Lasts

September 3, 2018

Comfort. Compatibility. Carelessness.

The three things that I believe are important inANYrelationship you may encounter, friendship or romantic.

Comfort means you can grasp that courage to go outof your comfort zone with this individual due to trust and the drivefor growth. Each time you step out of your comfort zone you grow a little more.

Compatibility isobviously important, there needs to be things in common, conversations to be had, emotions to be shared, and whatever else one may throw in.

Carelessness.Carelessness in a sense ofletting your hair down, beingwild, not caring what that individual thinks of you, being able to beYOUand onlyYOU.

Make sure you search for that sense of comfort/compatibility with this person. Realize that youre not worried about trying to impress, youve reached a new level of happy(ecstatic for lack of better words), and the ability toJUST BE. It is a rarity that you have these three things automatically or to the full extent with one single person.

When you realize you are experiencing it/have found itthe moment seems infinite, but you cant pause life regardless of how enjoyable a moment or experience may be. You can make it become infinite merely by holding ontothe memory. You keep that memory close and positive and dont let it turn negative no matter how hard it may be. You found anindividual you can be completely humble, and in tune with. You feel as though youve known them for years rather than months, weeks, or even days.

If you come across one of these individuals, cherish them.Embrace them.

Dont let the moment go to waste. Be happy and live in that moment. Dont take it for granted. Dont overthink it. Ignore the pain and accept that moment for what it is.

This whole topic relates back to everyone entering your life for a purpose, everything happening for a reason.Dont sell yourself short because youre afraid of the ending, everything in life ends with a goodbyetime length is the only hindering factor.

Endings have to happen, people have to leave.But they help make you who youre supposed to be.

Hold onto these moments.Be fearless.As much as you may want that moment to last forever, to not end,ask yourself how realistic is it?Sure things happen and work, but dont bank on it.If its meant to be it will be, but keep with your own journey, dont change anything.Dont put anything on hold.

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