How You Should Flirt (And How You Actually Flirt) Based On Your Zodiac Sign 


You use sarcasm and teasing, which accidentally makes them think you want nothing to do with them.

Give them compliments and affection. Let them know they’re one of the few people you actually give a damn about.


You giggle at everything they say. You like every comment they post. You put them on a pedestal.

Treat them like a human being. Realize they’re just as flawed as you. Remind yourself they aren’t out of your league. They would be lucky to have you.


You shower them with affection one day and ignore them the next day. You send a ton of mixed signals.

Stay consistent with the way you treat them. Show them you’re reliable, you’re someone they can count on.


 You make eye contact with them from across the room and hope they magically notice you.

Introduce yourself. Join dating apps. Take initiative.


You get into friendly competitions with them. You tease them about how much better you are at everything.

Boost their confidence. Make them feel better about themselves, not worse.


You don’t flirt. You spend all of your time working. You convince yourself you don’t need anyone to be happy.

Put yourself out there. Instead of working overtime, use your free time to meet new people, to explore new places.


You upload cute selfies and hope it convinces them to send you a text.

Send the first text. Start the conversation. Make a move.


You smirk, wink, and use corny pick-up lines on them that make it look like you’re a player.

Be more authentic. Don’t copy and paste messages to ten people at once. Have a real conversation with one person at a time.


You come on strong. You ask them out right away. You text them every two seconds.

Build up your compliments over time. Slow down your pace. Be patient.


You make inappropriate comments. You turn everything sexual. You beg for nudes.

Give them genuine compliments. Make it clear you like their brain as much as their body.


You upload statuses about falling in love, hope they notice, and hope they realize you’re talking about them.

Be upfront about your feelings. Instead of writing poetry about them, write directly to them so they aren’t left guessing how you feel.


You invite them out with your friends. You act like one of the guys.

Invite them on an official date. Spend time with them one-on-one so you don’t end up friend zoned.


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