To The Guy Who Won’t Tell Me What He Wants


So, you like me.
Its pretty obvious at this point in our friendship/relationship…whatever you want to call it. But you wont tell me what you want. You spend countless hours a day flirting with me. Playfully calling me pet names even though we arent together. You casually mention different things to me like how youll buy me that necklace that I like one day.

You jokingly say how Im your girl. and how Im your one and only. and how youre going to fill the so-called void in my life. But I need to know something. What does all this mean? Im confused to no end about where we stand and what you want out of this potential relationship with me and I dont know how to bring it up without coming across as vulnerable, naive or stupid.

You flirt but you’re not doing much more. Weve been friends for a while now. When we first met and got to know each other, I fell for you. Hard. Id never felt a chemistry like that before. I mean, we just clicked. After a while, I decided to give up because all you were doing was flirting. That was it – no more, no less.

Youve flipped a switch. Here recently youve been different. A good kind of different and I appreciate it. Youve been more willing to open up to me about certain events in your life, talk religion and things that are important to me. Youve been complimenting me in the subtlest ways. I would be lying if I said that these things didnt make my day.

Im not good at this stuff.
Ive never been good at feelings or dating. To be honest, Ive never really dated. However, I do know what I want when I am dating and what Im looking for. Just let me be blunt by saying you possess most of those qualities.

I know youve been hurt in the past.
I get it. Youve been hurt in the past and I hate that for you. I hate that you are so scarred by it. I wish I could fix that. But I want you to know that Im not like her and my intentions are not to hurt you.

Date me already.
Here I am, heart wide open, ready to give you a shot. So please, if you do decide you want the shot, dont break my heart. Im wearing it on my sleeve.

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