For Those Who Are Stuck And Don’t Know How To Move On

February 11, 2019

YOU – more than anyone, needs to understand that its okay to not move on It is you, who fathoms what youre going through. Although it is improper to sit still and hang on to something that wont ever be yours, it is not wrong to just stare at a blank space either. Its not easy, I know! And you just have to accept the fact that really, its not simple to just leave. It just wont happen overnight, and thats reasonable enough.

Take as much time you need to heal and get patched up. You dont have to forget, because moving on is not about how much youve forgotten, but rather accounts for how much youve actually grown. Dont worry, and just hang in there. Feel your pain . . . as much as you want, you can torture yourself with all the precious memories youre trying to hold on to. You can stay locked up, and you can cry your heart out. You dont have to move on right away, just feel yourself, and accept that youre hurting (and youre hurting really bad).

There wont be any easy way out, and you have to understand that. You can just take one step at a time. Dont wait until to finally walk away, because you will never be ready.

Engross yourself to every throbbing wound and let your body numb from all the excruciating pain. You can close your eyes when it hurts too much, and tear up if you need to . . . just allow yourself to actually live through the pain, and strengthen your heart from all the loss, grief and agony.

Time wont heal you; it will only assist your recovery. Your decision to finally let go will be the main catalyst for your successful healing. If youre choosing to hold on still, you can do that . . . you may hang on to the broken promises until your hands bleed from all the thorns and cracks.

You may hold on to the rope of deception all you want, and wait until the skin of your palms get ripped from the pressure and pride. You see, it all comes down to how much pain you are willing to endure. It all sums up to how much you respect yourself.

You can always decide to not move on and fill your own pool of agony. You can also choose jump in to that pool and drown . . . these are all the choices you have to make. The point is that, you dont have to rush; all you need to do is actually sit still, build immunity towards the pain, strengthen up your heart, load up your pocket with bravery and slowly pick yourself up. Rushing to move on will only make the situation worse.

There are a number of things that will only get better through time, and your healing process is one of those. Choose to actually accept and learn to not hold back anymore, holding back will keep your hands occupied with what is supposed to be for gripping the future.

Believe that every single step, no matter how big or small will take you somewhere. . . You also have to maintain a momentum in order to keep your pace. Go on your own stride! Only you, can understand what you emotionally require . . . be brave! Dont be scared . . . at the end of it, you will be just fine.

Taking the first step is always the hardest. Remember this your first move will affect the rest of your journey. I hope you choose the path that will serve you right. I hope you stop arguing about the things you deserve because; YOU deserve every good thing in this world.

One day, you will thank those who pushed you away, those who made you come up with the verdict to move on, those who wounded you, those who left you . . . one day you will tell them just how grateful you are, for making you go through all the ache from the past.

One day you will understand that maybe, you had to be miserable in order to appreciate happiness, and when that day comes; I hope you realize just how strong you are for actually lifting yourself up and repairing every single torn particle of your once shuttered humanity.

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